I used to think of the whole "forever alone" thing as some kind of death sentence. But it's not, especially if you're older and have done the dating thing. I'm nearly 40 so this kind of thing works for me. I know it's bullshit, sir - it's a fantasy. Porn is a fantasy. I hate to burst your bubble, but it's not real. Haha!
But honestly, I think of how many goddamned bullets I've dodged when it comes to women. Drug addicts, alcoholics, abusers, cheaters - there's a lot of fucked up women I dated. Age only lightened them up a bit, but let me tell ya - they're not married or dating anymore either. I'm lucky my ass isn't dead. I'll take living alone 100% over being with any of these crazy bitches today. You can bet your bottom dollar on that one. Life is what you make of it. Here in the US, only 45% of women are married and the rest choose not to be and are divorced. Of those, there are several unmarried women and several that cheat on their husbands through adult hookup sites. So a lot of married couples are living a lie.
My advice is to pursue your hobbies and dreams. Do what you want to do in life. I wish I had done that in my twenties rather than messing around with all these ladies. Hell, I'd even take the sex back - it wasn't that great!
I agree, and this is especially true if you are looking for emotional connection instead of just sex. Some people experience the trauma of heartbreak early on before getting intimate, while others after many years of marriage and several kids, and that is just devastating not just for the husband/wife but children too.
So there is always that fear of getting hurt clashing with desire to not stay alone.
Being virgin is nothing special in this times, you literaly hawe a lots of lots of mans and womans in very progresing age 20/30 wich are like you say 'virgin'. The sad truth is that there along the social sicknes wich people call 'loneliness', there is other one much more worse and one MEME word coment it 'society'.
if people wasnt so shy and socially akward and got out more made friends talked to people they wouldnt be virgins or lonely more than likely but most would rather sit at home so its theyre fault if theyre virgins or have no friends in most cases not all but most , i started going to parties with people i went to school with when i was 15 lost virginity at 16 and never had a problem making friends or finding partners its all up to the person to get outside and put themselves in the right kind of situations to get the things they want
It's a different generation. When I was growing up you had to talk to people. We didn't have cell phones. You developed communication skills in your youth. You had to go outside and play. That's not a thing anymore. So a lot of social skills suffer from it. If you were born in 94, I was born in 85. Let me tell ya, shit was a lot different back then. You can't compare your generation to this one. And for many young men, yes, they may very well never lose their virginity to a human being. I just read that they developed kissing sensors in haptic feedback for VR. That's where we're going. Pretty soon, there very well may be a situation where physical touch is a thing of the past. In fact, many Asian countries are still locked down and isolated. Japan, especially. So this might very well be the future of human interaction. Now how I feel about that is another story altogether, but you can't really escape the technology anymore. Single mothers bought all their damn kids the oculus devices and they're already prepped for an evolving virtual world.
Actually the kissing thing is fake; it doesn't have the force required.
In the paper it was made to show haptics emulating wind blowing for example and not only on the lips but a big part of the face. However the lips part ofc got all the attention and wrong headlines. Especially since they showed a girl in the demonstrations.
Its quite interesting; normally we do haptics with motors but this used sound, allowing for way different sensations. Its just another immersion tool, for kissing and other stuff you can get a doll or other "toys".
So women have FEELINGS. Games are no longer about doing the impossible like saving the world or overcoming an evil empire but about exploring your emotions and your psyche.
But honestly, I think of how many goddamned bullets I've dodged when it comes to women. Drug addicts, alcoholics, abusers, cheaters - there's a lot of fucked up women I dated. Age only lightened them up a bit, but let me tell ya - they're not married or dating anymore either. I'm lucky my ass isn't dead. I'll take living alone 100% over being with any of these crazy bitches today. You can bet your bottom dollar on that one. Life is what you make of it. Here in the US, only 45% of women are married and the rest choose not to be and are divorced. Of those, there are several unmarried women and several that cheat on their husbands through adult hookup sites. So a lot of married couples are living a lie.
My advice is to pursue your hobbies and dreams. Do what you want to do in life. I wish I had done that in my twenties rather than messing around with all these ladies. Hell, I'd even take the sex back - it wasn't that great!
So there is always that fear of getting hurt clashing with desire to not stay alone.
PREACH BRATHA' PREACH!!!!!
The sad truth is that there along the social sicknes wich people call 'loneliness', there is other one much more worse and one MEME word coment it 'society'.
In the paper it was made to show haptics emulating wind blowing for example and not only on the lips but a big part of the face. However the lips part ofc got all the attention and wrong headlines. Especially since they showed a girl in the demonstrations.
Its quite interesting; normally we do haptics with motors but this used sound, allowing for way different sensations. Its just another immersion tool, for kissing and other stuff you can get a doll or other "toys".
https://youtu.be/h1_2YRD5Cck