In a couple online conversations, I have had the sense that women involved weren't voluntarily admitting it, but may have had abortions and were becoming very emotional. In those cases, I have felt moved to end the discussion and go pray, unbeknownst to them. Before doing so, I would try to make it clear that I feel for women who feel they have no choice but to abort, speaking in love and non-judgment and hoping they would feel comfortable reaching out to me later.