Awesome stuff Paul!!! truth be told, I've been getting a lot better at saying no :-)

i heartily agree with everything here Paul! "No rules" is a great concept, I do this but don't have them written down - I'll definitely be actioning that. I recently said no to a very significant opportunity for a series of projects that I really wanted to do, but it would have changed my business and my lifestyle in ways that would have meant I had less time and flexibility. I've realised that especially with a young family, those are my non-negotiables. No amount of money is worth giving them up. Reading this article hard on the heels of making that very tough decision is a nice reminder that it was the right thing, so thank you!